Thursday, November 9, 2017

HATE?

     Hater.  Troll.  Basher.  Bully.  What other names did I miss?

     Do you have one of those?

      I was debating in my head if I should write about this because it's hard to talk about it.  However, since I have been blogging and am active on social media, I decided to share my thoughts on it.

     Also, YES, I have had my fair share of it and I would be lying if I said that it did not hurt me.

     Okay.  So here is what I have to say about it.

     When someone says something hurtful to me, I always try to put myself in the shoes of the other person.  Why? Because I want to understand him or her.

     So, if I was the other person, and I do not like someone's face, clothes or hair ... maybe I read something I did not agree with ... or I feel I just don't like someone's character ... so, in other words, I am passing judgement on them.  Everyone does it, right?  Let's get real, it's normal - right?  Well ... so I cannot stop judging others ... BUT I can control what I do with it.  I can control what I say or do.  I can use my brain to decide.

     Oh!!! I am anonymous online and I can say or do anything I want. I can cuss, destroy or hurt others.  Really? Is that wise?  What for?

     I think, since we now have the means to communicate with others all around the world, that we should use it instead to encourage, help and make friends.

     Stop the hate.




Disclaimer: I am not perfect.  No one is.  This is just my opinion.










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HATE?

     Hater.  Troll.  Basher.  Bully.  What other names did I miss?      Do you have one of those?       I was debating in my head ...